I have to be careful to avoid reading certain posts, because some can trigger. Although sometimes I can not resist because I am curious about their problems. Then the post triggers me, so the forum can backfire on me, if I'm not careful as to what posts I read. I wonder if anyone else has that problem. So the Coping has to do with resisting the urge to read certain posts. So that's the coping. Anyway, the point is the forum can sometimes backfire on me.