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Ideas & Opinions What are your priorities in life???

MisterBGone

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#41
I think that, your Professor, for the most part was either speaking from a traditionalist points of view, or was in him himself; “traditional,” (meaning) / or - Old! ;) honestly the ideal is obviously to strik e a healthy balance. Like most things worthwhile in life; nature etc. so whatever that mix is for you, is what s right—not any sort of idealized standard or norm (expectation) set forth by society & all that // Jazz. . ;)

So what s right for you, may not be right for me & vice versa.

For starters, we may each have different strengths to begin with in some, one or more of each of those individual categories you’ve disclosed. So what would make sense and be logical is to focus our energies on the ones that matter to us most, that we find to be weak in , or have less than what we’d like — where we’d like to be.

Make sense? Hope so! Good. . . Now, have a nice day & enjoy the weather— unless it is winter there or something. :D
 

Nick

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#42
If you are comfortable with mentioning your gender I would be happy as well...

Main reason I am curious about this is how my professor said that love is the priority for girls (and women) and success and business is men's priority. I couldn't have been more offended because based on what he said I'm not a girl then lol.

Anyways what you could choose between: Love, relationship with family and friends, academic success, business and money, health etc etc...
Well ... I'm a guy
Neither love nor success are in my top priorities.
My top priority is making sure the people I care about have what they need. Whether that be shelter, food, clothes or they need to talk in the middle of the night. I don't care what I'm doing, if my friend needs to talk I'm going to find a way. I'm not talking about chit chat here, but if they've got something going on. I'll drop a work meeting or stay up all night.

I find some of what I do at work fascinating. I certainty don't want to fail in my job. At the same time, I lost interest in climbing the corporate ladder years ago. It became clear that the higher you go the more you are owned. Money is important because it allows me to live and to maintain my top priority. It's not something I strive for. I graduated from college with a 4.0, but academics weren't important, they were means to an end. My health is a walking nightmare, so we just try to ignore that aspect of life.
 
#43
Most elderly women are but this one seems to make HATING people her best skill.
She has a nasty mouth not just yesterday, neighbour A lives next door other side of alley (she seems okay) and her open window about 2 or 3 summers ago all you could hear was P she was in there shouting the c word every few words. Bleach .. would refuse to clean that germ ridden hole! 😂
It would tell you “I’m not a miracle worker” 😂

The old hag will lose out because the housing officer looks set to take her to court. My housemate / friend of 27 years and I just make logs when she’s nasty.
Eg it’s just about 03,50 and she shouted woo woo woo about 3,30.
I’m upset but she Won’t wear us down. Taurus.. stands firm and we both are. Tart bags is a Gemini

(I have nothing against Gemini who are decent but this one epitomises the negativity of dual nature. Nice to someone’s face then nasty behind backs)

Must sleep now I’m wiped out. Take care L I fairytale. 🌺
that's good to keep track of it. If you haven't already you should get video evidence too.
Ugh don't get me started on geminis lol, had too many bad experiences with them and how inconsistent they are with people.. but yeah same nothing against ones who aren't annoying *bleh I started studying astrology over a year ago and it makes so much sense for how people act... your neighbour sounds like she has some aries in her too- aries mercury or mars perhaps *facepalm

high five for staying strong.. I'm a scorpio, we share that same drive of standing firm *hi5

Hope you slept well. Thanks, you too :) x
 

Peppers

Well-Known Member
#44
that's good to keep track of it. If you haven't already you should get video evidence too.
Ugh don't get me started on geminis lol, had too many bad experiences with them and how inconsistent they are with people.. but yeah same nothing against ones who aren't annoying *bleh I started studying astrology over a year ago and it makes so much sense for how people act... your neighbour sounds like she has some aries in her too- aries mercury or mars perhaps *facepalm

high five for staying strong.. I'm a scorpio, we share that same drive of standing firm *hi5

Hope you slept well. Thanks, you too :) x
Hello 🌺 yes i slept well. Still upset about what happened though. I guess she is digging her own pit!

Not sure about video evidence, I don’t kmow if i can handle another situation like yesterday and the gadget would look obvious with open windows. Any ideas?

Aries features. Hm she might. Maybe she’s just an average Uranus!

Ahh scorpios are well deep focused on things. I looked up my chart and had one done years ago. I have aries in my chart so if she brings fire I will floor her with mine hah!

Don’t start a fight with a sleep deprived person. 💩 just like the prick who called me another dirty word who brought his whole fucking famiky through our front yard. Shouts nonce because i take a photo as hos dog about to 💩
So i ask him “what does the word mean?” He didn’t even know! What a knob. Next time they brought the whole tribe through our front, he hid behind a tree! Dumbass. 😂 That’s some of what types we get here. One day on our terms to move where nobody csn harass, and where no asshats can bring their damp tribe to disturb us. 🌺🎚
 
#45
Hello 🌺 yes i slept well. Still upset about what happened though. I guess she is digging her own pit!

Not sure about video evidence, I don’t kmow if i can handle another situation like yesterday and the gadget would look obvious with open windows. Any ideas?

Aries features. Hm she might. Maybe she’s just an average Uranus!

Ahh scorpios are well deep focused on things. I looked up my chart and had one done years ago. I have aries in my chart so if she brings fire I will floor her with mine hah!

Don’t start a fight with a sleep deprived person. 💩 just like the prick who called me another dirty word who brought his whole fucking famiky through our front yard. Shouts nonce because i take a photo as hos dog about to 💩
So i ask him “what does the word mean?” He didn’t even know! What a knob. Next time they brought the whole tribe through our front, he hid behind a tree! Dumbass. 😂 That’s some of what types we get here. One day on our terms to move where nobody csn harass, and where no asshats can bring their damp tribe to disturb us. 🌺🎚
hmm maybe if you left your phone on the side like it was just sitting there without you holding it she wouldn't notice?
haha go get em , aries can do anything! *woohoo
 

Peppers

Well-Known Member
#47
hmm maybe if you left your phone on the side like it was just sitting there without you holding it she wouldn't notice?
haha go get em , aries can do anything! *woohoo
Nice idea but I’m not on the ground floor so it would be hit and miss. I hardly expected her foul mouth barrage yesterday but I have on tape, me asking her “why did you call me the c word?” Her no reply gave me what i needed and I also said “I’ve done nothing to you so why did you call me that?” When she put up the middle finger I said that on the tape “I can see you flip the birdie at me. Thank you Mrs (name) you’ve gven me more than you know.”
I also called her out on a few things so we see how A and C will treat her now. They were in her garden segment with her.
 

StrangeRanger

Just Another Heathen
#48
My priorties in life is to just live an honest life. To gain knowledge from the ups & downs as life goes on, & appreciate the little things. To stop & smell the flowers even in moments when we forget theres such beauty around us. To spread kindness & pay it forward, hopefully making a small impact on someone or to make them smile. To love even if love isnt present, & learn to love myself more. Most importantly to fight even on days I think I won be able to go on. Idk I guess those are priorties, I dont really get materialistic priotiy as much so it may be odd to a few haha
 

StrangeRanger

Just Another Heathen
#49
My priorties in life is to just live an honest life. To gain knowledge from the ups & downs as life goes on, & appreciate the little things. To stop & smell the flowers even in moments when we forget theres such beauty around us. To spread kindness & pay it forward, hopefully making a small impact on someone or to make them smile. To love even if love isnt present, & learn to love myself more. Most importantly to fight even on days I think I won be able to go on. Idk I guess those are priorties to me, I dont really get materialistic priotiy as much like wanting to rich, or just seen by the facade of outer beauty. I feel like a truly rich & beauty life consist of feeling & growth, & the power of kindness & creativity; so it may be odd to a few haha I get statistics matter, evidently your professor seems to focus on gender a bit more & not on the fact we all strive for different greatness & success no matter who we are or what we believe. I dont habe the full context so I dont know if he was purposely being close minded. Really, we all have opposing perspectives despite gender n such so its a bit of a statement I wouldnt expect from a mentor. Im a woman yes but in the end it doesnt matter I dont think, I also think everyone prioritizes love at least once in their lives. It definitely a human thing, not an individual group ( it wouldnt let me finish my first post sorry for two!)
 
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just_me_again

Well-Known Member
#50
I'm a girl (age 23) and my goals are centered mostly around work and school. I'm prioritizing my happiness for the first time and working towards financial security without over extending myself. I might be biased because I do have a good and stable love in my life as a constant already.
 

Thauoy

Well-Known Member
#52
I am 33 years old man. I am still single and still live with my mother and sister. They are very kind and loving towards me. I feel very sad and disheartened when I live alone. I really don't like loneliness. For the time being I have my mother and sister who give me companionship. I worry about the future when my sister will get married and my mother will get old and die. So my most important priority is to have someone who can provide me love and companionship like wife or children . Another priority is to have enough money to get the basic needs of life like food,clothing and shelter. Third and last is to remain healthy and free from any ailments.
 

Ixtab

Well-Known Member
#53
I'm a man age 35. I hope the class didn't cost very much.

The professor is ignorant.

Love is not real. My priorities have to do with the battle of the spirit. I believe the wars in our physical world come from the mental wars inside we do with ourselves.

In the Edo period in Japan if samurai lived to be old they gave motivational talks to the youth throughout the domain traveling from one school to the next.

At the end of the talk was a q and a with students and master samurai.

Student: Master you are the most skilled warrior in this or any other domain. Can anyone beat you.

Master: Yes there is one man who has always defeated me each time I fight with him. Since we made peace I fear no one else. I only have to see him when there is a mirror.

I aspire to walk the way of the samurai, whatever that ends up looking like or what happens is superfluous.
 

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