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should i leave him? please i need advice

Lestat

SF Supporter
#21
This person doesnt seem safe to be around. You can love him, but would these issue present around others? People you do care about?
I am really sorry with what happened to you. Please talk here more and try to think what is the best for you in the long run. Breaking up is very hard to do. I can understand why you would stay though.
 

Aurelia

🔥 A Fire Inside 🔥
SF Supporter
#22
I feel like he's demonstrated to you that if you don't give him his way, he'll manage to eventually take it anyway. It's possible that things are good right now because you two haven't disagreed on much as of yet, but once you do, he might force you into something you don't want or start manipulating or threatening you in some way. I think "love bombing" is indeed the proper term as someone else said for what's happening here. And just because he acts like truly cares for you doesn't mean that he'll never hurt you. Be careful.
 

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