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What helps YOU when you are at point zero?

Survivorist

Black sheep of my family....
#1
What is your personal strategy, when you are at point zero - but somehow know you cannot go?
Sport? Sleep? Eating? Reading? Music? Pray? Cry? Walk? Any strategy? Maybe helpful for all of us.

I do not know if this is interesting, but maybe some good ideas will come...?
 

LumberJack

Huggy Bear 🐻
#5
I don’t exactly know what you mean by point zero, but from context, it sounds like existential despair. Is that close? I use my strengths in these situations. My strengths are for the most part, mirrors of my defects.

I’m infinitely distraction prone, so just hitting a random page on Wikipedia and going from there will keep me occupied for hours.

Meditation also helps me. I have a tendency to feel lonely, so in my meditation I will contemplate the fact that so many people are lonely, and even though we don’t know each other, we are all in the same boat.
 

JMG

Pink Sponge Summer Queen 💖🧽🦉👑
#13
When I feel at “point zero” (that just means “at my lowest/most hopeless, right? I’m assuming that’s what it means) I try my absolute best to think of anything/anyone/any place that is good/positive/inspiring and uplifting in this world. As many positive people, places and things as I can pretty much, there are so many for sure imo.

I not only “think of them”, but also do my best to focus my mind and feelings on feeling the deepest level of gratitude for them. Whether they’re “people or things” that are “in my life” directly or not, the gratitude I feel is “for the fact that they exist at all”. Then I try to focus as much of my energy as I possibly can on those good/positive/inspiring things, and also to draw as much of that positive/inspiring energy as I can into myself, as deeply and intensely as I can. I visualize that “by doing that” that it is helping “heal” my mind and that it will bring me more of the good/positive feelings I want, and less of the ones I don’t want.

Some of those “specific” people/things/places I think of are my mom and what a strong survivor she is, same with my sis, rl friend, the few online friends I have, my sweet little kitty, animals in general (and how sweet and unconditionally loving they are), nature, art, games, happy/positive songs/movies/shows I like, all the things I am lucky enough to own, forests, beaches, beautiful views, peaceful/calm/serene places and so many other things that are pleasing to the senses in some form pretty much :)
 

JMG

Pink Sponge Summer Queen 💖🧽🦉👑
#14
Oops, thought of a couple other things that also help a lot (they’ve both “already been said by others here” lol but just confirming that they are very helpful to me too) - helping others, and reading.
 

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