I don't know about any of you, but I find that sometimes it actually helps for me to engage in morbid humor. Not just dark humor, but the stuff that used to be written off as harmless nonsense when my father was in college during the 1950s. He attended City College Engineering School in New York. In those days, they were so tough on their students that one could earn a grade of F+. They had a saying, "you have to know something to fail." Needless to say, it was a stressful environment, and the students' emotional reactions to this were reflected in humorous clips in the school's newspaper.
My father told me that the paper would often end with the announcement that the last meeting of the suicide club was to take place at midnight, at the top of the clock tower.
I don't know why, but even as someone who thinks about ending my life often, I get a laugh out of jokes like that. Maybe it's related to my using humor as a child to cope with the realities of the Holocaust. When you're raised in a Jewish family, you start watching stock footage at a very young age. It can be traumatic, to say the least. To this day, the Bugs Bunny and Daffy Duck reels I like the most are the ones making fun of Hitler. But more to the point of my obsession with morbid humor, my favorite non-Hitler related Bugs and Daffy reel includes such gems as, "Well, I say he DOES have to shoot me now! So, shoot me now! Mnyeh!"
Come to think of it, I can sit through hours of Wile E Coyote getting mutilated repeatedly and falling off of cliffs as he tries to catch the Roadrunner.
So that's my tip. Watch more Bugs Bunny. If nothing else, you'll laugh so hard, you'll grab a cold chocolate milk and forget about stuff long enough to stop yourself from doing something you might not live to regret.
My father told me that the paper would often end with the announcement that the last meeting of the suicide club was to take place at midnight, at the top of the clock tower.
I don't know why, but even as someone who thinks about ending my life often, I get a laugh out of jokes like that. Maybe it's related to my using humor as a child to cope with the realities of the Holocaust. When you're raised in a Jewish family, you start watching stock footage at a very young age. It can be traumatic, to say the least. To this day, the Bugs Bunny and Daffy Duck reels I like the most are the ones making fun of Hitler. But more to the point of my obsession with morbid humor, my favorite non-Hitler related Bugs and Daffy reel includes such gems as, "Well, I say he DOES have to shoot me now! So, shoot me now! Mnyeh!"
Come to think of it, I can sit through hours of Wile E Coyote getting mutilated repeatedly and falling off of cliffs as he tries to catch the Roadrunner.
So that's my tip. Watch more Bugs Bunny. If nothing else, you'll laugh so hard, you'll grab a cold chocolate milk and forget about stuff long enough to stop yourself from doing something you might not live to regret.