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Dreamed about her last night

#1
There was this girl I dated, few years back. We broke up. Last night, I had a dream, and she was in it. I don't remember anything we talked about, or anything we did. I usually don't remember my dreams at all. I just remember that we were together again. Not dating again, just her in my presence and I in her presence. Now, she's at the forefront of my mind for the first time in a long time. I don't know. I think I loved her. I have an exam today and now I can't focus anymore.
 
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Congratsbaby

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There was this girl I dated, few years back. We broke up. Last night, I had a dream, and she was in it. I don't remember anything we talked about, or anything we did. I usually don't remember my dreams at all. I just remember that we were together again. Not dating again, just her in my presence and I in her presence. Now, she's at the forefront of my mind for the first time in a long time. I don't know. I think I loved her. I have an exam today and now I can't focus anymore.
Dreams like such can definitely have an impact over you.
But I also think they are unique and beautiful and spiritual experience
 
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Maybe it's a cycle. I think I've been repressing my grief over the breakup, trying to wipe all evidence of my memories with her. Blocking from social media, deleting photos, conversations, etc. Until I can properly confront the root of it all, maybe I'll just keep on having to go through this whole thing of not thinking about her for a while until my subconscious forces the thought into me.
 

Congratsbaby

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#10
Maybe it's a cycle. I think I've been repressing my grief over the breakup, trying to wipe all evidence of my memories with her. Blocking from social media, deleting photos, conversations, etc. Until I can properly confront the root of it all, maybe I'll just keep on having to go through this whole thing of not thinking about her for a while until my subconscious forces the thought into me.
No I understand , it happens and it has happened to me. Suppressed things come out later on anyways.
Do you wish to make room for it or are you going to keep suppressing it ? Sorry I didn't understood the last bit properly ?
 
#11
No I understand , it happens and it has happened to me. Suppressed things come out later on anyways.
Do you wish to make room for it or are you going to keep suppressing it ? Sorry I didn't understood the last bit properly ?
Not sure, I hope there's a way to remove it completely. Not forget it, but more like remove my current emotional reaction to it. That's what I meant by confronting the root of it all. The stuff about my subconscious forcing the thought back into me is just the fact that even if I can consciously not think about it, I'll still end up dreaming about it.
 

Congratsbaby

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#12
Not sure, I hope there's a way to remove it completely. Not forget it, but more like remove my current emotional reaction to it. That's what I meant by confronting the root of it all. The stuff about my subconscious forcing the thought back into me is just the fact that even if I can consciously not think about it, I'll still end up dreaming about it.
I understand. But in my knowledge feelings can't be removed. It can be something that you don't want to do , but making space for your grief is the most effective indeed.
You can try writing about it a bit daily maybe that will be beneficial. However everyone grieves differently , so that's that. I believe making room for it is the most important though.
I personally have found when I make room for my feelings they become easy to carry , best of luck
 
#13
I understand. But in my knowledge feelings can't be removed. It can be something that you don't want to do , but making space for your grief is the most effective indeed.
You can try writing about it a bit daily maybe that will be beneficial. However everyone grieves differently , so that's that. I believe making room for it is the most important though.
I personally have found when I make room for my feelings they become easy to carry , best of luck
I'll try to follow your advice. Thanks.
 

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