I'm a woman in her 20s and I don't have the quality that is most important and precious for a woman. I'm not beautiful. No matter what I do I don't think I'm beautiful. Nowadays beauty standards are so high...tall, skinny, nice skin, long full hair, curves, light colored eyes, very small nose and big lips... all the girls around me are full of surgery and they're way more beautiful than me. I don't have enough money for surgery. At this point in my life, I'm just so depressed and think that I'm not worthy of having any relationship or partner. And I've never had any kind of partner or someone being interested in me. I guess there's just so many beautiful women around that no one even notice me. I'm very lonely...like I don't even have one friend to tell her this, I'm always alone and by myself.
I think I'm not beautiful and that makes me depressed.
- Thread starter Moonsa
- Start date
Hi @Moonsa and welcome to SF. Pleased you have found us.
So sorry to hear that you are finding things so difficult. It can be very difficult when we see ourselves in particular ways, constantly comparing ourselves to others. It can become very consuming. You mention others having surgery to make themselves beautiful, I think others will likely have different opinions on things like this. The lip fillers and botox and enhancements, in my opinion, make people look false and ugly. The natural look is so much better, real, genuine, I much prefer it.
I hope you find support and comfort here on SF. Hope you stick around and get to know us
So sorry to hear that you are finding things so difficult. It can be very difficult when we see ourselves in particular ways, constantly comparing ourselves to others. It can become very consuming. You mention others having surgery to make themselves beautiful, I think others will likely have different opinions on things like this. The lip fillers and botox and enhancements, in my opinion, make people look false and ugly. The natural look is so much better, real, genuine, I much prefer it.
I hope you find support and comfort here on SF. Hope you stick around and get to know us
Welcome to SF. I hate that you don't feel beautiful. Beauty standards today are so obtuse, especially for women. But I think you should be proud that you haven't had surgery. You're the real deal. I don't know what you look like. But I will say that there are many different kinds of beauty. I personally find a beautiful heart more important than a beautiful face. When it comes to relationships, I believe that things will get better for you as you get older. Most people are somewhat shallow in their youth. As you get older, your peers will grow up with you and become more mature. And whenever you feel lonely, you can always come to SF to chat or express yourself in the forums. Feel free to PM me if you need someone to talk to. Remember SF is here for you.
@Moonsa
Glad that you are here with us and welcome. I hope that you can see and believe yourself to be beautiful because it is more how you behave towards others that matters as other point out. The plastics and nonsense are nothing to be envious of since they are frauds and fakes. Being yourself and true to yourself and others is the important thing. This is a good place to get to know others and make friends. I hope you will continue to take part here.
Glad that you are here with us and welcome. I hope that you can see and believe yourself to be beautiful because it is more how you behave towards others that matters as other point out. The plastics and nonsense are nothing to be envious of since they are frauds and fakes. Being yourself and true to yourself and others is the important thing. This is a good place to get to know others and make friends. I hope you will continue to take part here.
While you haven't found a partner yet, that doesn't mean that you're not worthy of one.
I think you've said in other posts that you look like a young teenager. If that's so, it would be understandable then if adults would be unlikely to approach you.
I think you'll probably be able to find a partner if you can go about finding one the right way.
Hugs Moonsa
I think you've said in other posts that you look like a young teenager. If that's so, it would be understandable then if adults would be unlikely to approach you.
I think you'll probably be able to find a partner if you can go about finding one the right way.
Hugs Moonsa
we all like you please be kind to yourself