I really hate my eye shape and eye color. I cry over it every day.

Your eyes are beautiful the way they are. All eye colors are beautiful in their own way. Who ever told you otherwise?

My dark eyes are my biggest insecurity.....

But when did you begin to believe that and why?

(assuming you're female) have you ever looked up any makeup looks for dark eyes to bring out their beauty? Maybe that might help some.

I'm sorry you don't like the look of your eyes. I think Aurelia is onto something. There's beauty in everybody whether you see it or not. I hope you can find things about your body and personality and focus on them. Imagine a brick wall with a crack in it. Should you focus on the crack or should you focus on the rest of the wall which is perfect and painstakingly built? And remember SF is here for you.

Eyes are interesting because people often say that they find the eyes of their partner to be their favourite feature but then I don’t recall a guy ever saying to me what kind of eyes they like. I’ve heard them say things about all sorts of body parts that they want to be a certain way but never that they want big or small eyes or any preference for a particular colour.
What about you? When you are looking for a partner do you only consider people with big or small eyes or a particular colour?

Honestly, as a man, I think if you want to attract other men, you just have to find something about your looks that stand out, and work on that.

It can be anything.