Venting I am absolutely disgusting.

Have you ever heard that phrase "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"? While it seems impossible to you, that you are pretty, other people see you as more than what you think is "ugly." There's another phrase "Beauty is only skin deep"? You could be a beauty model, what really matters is who your real self is. If you're kind, quiet, and have a big caring heart, that is what others will see. If you're rude, loud, and make others feel uncomfortable, that's what others will see. I don't know your situation, I just want to help you understand, in here we don't know what you look like. It doesn't matter and it shouldn't matter to you . Please show yourself the love and caring you deserve. It sounds like you are a beautiful person and just need reminded and you're not alone.

I don’t understand how anyone could like anything about my appearance. I am morbidly obese. I have disgusting, crooked teeth. I have acne scars all over my face. And overall I’m just ugly. I hate it when people tell me that I’m pretty though because I know deep down they are lying to me. They are just saying that to be nice. There is no possible way that anyone could like any sort of physical thing about me.

When i was young, no one told me I was pretty, cute or anything. I used to think I was ugly. I was heavier than other girls. But the thing that held me back the most was being shy. I like the reply to you, it is more about the inside. If I could go back, I'd be more outgoing and try to be friendly instead of hiding in my shell worried I was ugly. Being ugly, let's just say you are right for the sake of it, is not a reason to give up. I looked up your posts. You like your hair at least. I'm now losing my hair. Hair is important to women and girls. Focus on different styles you can do with your hair. Maybe play with makeup..... I've never seen ugly eyes in my life... you can try different colors and see what makes your eyes pop. Once you feel reasonably comfortable with yourself, think about what you want in the bigger picture of life. Do you want a man's attention because he thinks your pretty? I had a few, it;s not worth it. Your personality is almost everything. I'm still working on mine. But after all these years I regret not working on how I interact with people, how I affect someone else even just with a look that's sad or upset. I try to smile at people now. I hope I haven't said anything you don't like, if I did, just ignore it. I wish you the best.

It's online, but stick around and you'll find friends here. I get it, everyone needs attention and someone to like them. I'm sorry your not feeling like anyone does. It's a tough world, it's become more narcissitic and artificial in a lot of ways. Hang in there girl.. it's okay to let anything you want to out here on the forum.

Thanks but I’m not a girl haha 😅

My bad. I made an assumption on a word ''pretty''..... I'll learn not to do that again lol.